Keep Loving!

 

 

,,,He said, "What I love about you, is that you don't know how beautiful you are."

He said,"You make me want to be a better person."

She said, "Don't talk so much, just give me a hug. Because when tomorrow comes, and the next fancy thing swishes by, you'll no longer want to be a better person."

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Why do some women change their bodies in so many ways just to attract a man, keep a man by their side, perpetuate the suffocating myth that they're desirable? Why? Is it not enough to be, without having to stuff silicon into our breasts, without having to embellish ourselves in so many ways?

Are we not good enough the way we were born, each destined to be unique individuals?

Some sacrifice their individual greatness to the collective definition of beauty

Are we not good enough as we are? Do we have to change ourselves in so many ways?

Who am I? Am I not good enough? Just to be. Just being me - is it enough?

If I were to just be me, who am I?

Is it so important to be desired, just so we can be, just be, us? I want him to be attracted by the me, but who am I?

I long to be me, unreservedly me. It must be a tremendously powerful, powerfully liberating feeling, just to be me. It's enough, I'm sure it's enough, just to be , me.

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For this is what I believe. That whosoever comes into your life, at this point, is meant to be. There is a universal law of attraction that draws him into your life. He wants you as much as you want him. You don't have to change, struggle to be different from what you were born to be. Of course, if you're cantakerous, covetous, bitter and resentful, then you've got to change, because that's not what you were born to be. If you are fearful, timorous, uncertain, indecisive, filled with dread, then you've got to change, because that's not what you were meant to be. But if you just followed that path that was set out for you at birth, when you were a naked babe, suckling at your mother's breasts, then you will find your happiness.

I am a sweet, gentle, loving and tender woman, giving of her love to her family and friends. I am a true and devoted wife, a loving and nurturing mother. Because if you believe, you are.

This morning, tonight, today, say this prayer with me:

"I am a gentle, loving, kind, tender and nurturing woman. I am attracting into my life right now a man who treasures these qualities in me, a man who is kind, gentle, sincere, loyal, generous, courageous, morally upright and loving. He loves me for who I am. He wants me just as I want him. When our paths meet, we will recognise each other immediately; we will see in each other the qualities that we treasure the most. Above all else, I recognise that it's enough to be me, just to be me. I am perfect and lovely as I am."

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